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Old 05-26-2010, 01:43 PM   #40
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Originally Posted by Blaster86 View Post
Unless he/she threatened to kill them if they left. Unless he/she threatened to harm any children, or any family. Unless he/she threatened to harm themselves if the person left. It is rarely just physical abuse, but mental aswell. It is rarely ever as easy as just "walk away."

At the very least it's "run far, far away and make sure they don't find you," in the minds of people in this situation and that can be very very hard to do.
One more thing on this - If "he/she threatened to kill them if they left...threatened to harm any children, or any family..." it is especially important that the abusee leaves. Are you suggesting they should stay? Sure a person might need help getting away from their abuser and I'm glad that help is available, but for you to suggest leaving is not ultimately the best thing to do is bizarre.
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