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malcolmk14 · 05-06-2010, 10:15 AM

One thing that bothers me is that I feel like I'm always the one to initiate things with my circle of friends. I'm always the one calling, e-mailing, texting saying "hey, we should do this next weekend" or "hey, what do you think about vegas for spring break?"

I swear, if I didn't call my friends to make plans, we would never hang out. I've tested this theory with a couple friends and stopped calling them and putting in the effort to make plans with them. Haven't heard from them in almost a year. I guess I wasn't high on their list of priorities to begin with, but it's still annoying.

Maybe I'm just a jerk and people don't like hanging out with me?

05-06-2010, 10:15 AM	#39
malcolmk14 Franchise Player Join Date: Jan 2008 Exp:	One thing that bothers me is that I feel like I'm always the one to initiate things with my circle of friends. I'm always the one calling, e-mailing, texting saying "hey, we should do this next weekend" or "hey, what do you think about vegas for spring break?" I swear, if I didn't call my friends to make plans, we would never hang out. I've tested this theory with a couple friends and stopped calling them and putting in the effort to make plans with them. Haven't heard from them in almost a year. I guess I wasn't high on their list of priorities to begin with, but it's still annoying. Maybe I'm just a jerk and people don't like hanging out with me? Last edited by malcolmk14; 05-06-2010 at 10:20 AM.