I can't believe what I'm reading here people! To those who say it's easier to not have to argue with the girlfriend/wife or would rather spend every day with their loved one rather than hang out with the boys once in a while - I call BS, grow some balls!
I don't care who said loved one is, there's just no way you could get me to spend that much time with any ONE person. I've been with the same girl for 7 years and we've been married for 3. I love her just as much as the next couple, but I need to get the hell out of this house once in a while. It's completely unnatural to spend that much time with only one person. We are social creatures, don't deny yourselves of that. You have to set boundaries that allow yourself to go out separately once in a while or you'll go stir crazy and the littlest things begin to spark bigger and bigger arguments.
If you set down some rules that work for both parties, there should be no reason for her to get pissy everytime you want to go out with the boys. If she still does, I'd seriously question what the motivation behind that was. Really, is she so selfish that she needs you by her side every day? That's completely ridiculous.
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