My dad was basicly a deadbeat, and I had little to do with him or him me for years, I didn't get any insight into his actions until I went through a divorce myself and found that I lost everything, got stuck in a bachelor suite saw my daughter a few hours a week after being the primary caregiver for years. It was really tempting to just put it all behind me and move back to UK as the pain was endless and continual, found myself outside my ex's house after dropping my kid off sobbing, nearly drove my truck into a river at one stage.
I am lucky, I could and did put some contracts together and put myself in a situation where I could get a place for both me and my kid and furnish it etc, but for the first time I really understood why some guys just run away, and the more you love your kids the worse it is really.
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