[J pold]

I have a strange view on this, I'm very skeptical of marriage but I know that I want to have my own children, it is very important to me. I know traditionally one comes before the other but for some reason I have much more confidence in myself to be a great father than a good husband. Part of this is because at a very young age I was forced to look after my three younger siblings and play the role of their father while my parents went through an ugly divorce, even to this day my little sisters tell me that they look at me as more of a father figure than a brother. I know for a fact I can be a great Dad, and I've been told that by many people in and outside of my family. Obviously I will wait until my life is more stable before I would actually have my own child, I still have a lot of growing up to do myself.

It's strange if I met me 30 years down the road and I still wasn't married, I'd be fine with that. If I didn't have my own children I would be very disappointed.