I think only you can make that decision. If you don't want kids, don't have them. The last thing you need is to try and nurture children you never wanted. That's not good for you or them. If you don't want to be in a relationship, don't be in one. That's not fair to you or your girlfriend. Obviously, I don't know you and can only form an opinion based on your posts. But you seem to care more about protecting yourself from losing money or freedom than you do about building a relationship. Maybe you're just meant to be a bachelor and play the field.
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