I got married in 2004 and now have two children: a one year old boy and a three year old girl. The two of them give me far more joy than a dozen trips to Vegas/year ever would. It is awesome to come in the door after work and have two kids yelling Dada and running to give me hugs. Getting hammered on a Friday night or going to a movie on Saturday just doesn't come close.
I love being a Dad. It is the best thing I have ever done. Maybe you are too young to appreciate it, or maybe you are not cut out to be one. I do believe that not everyone who has kids should have kids. Some don't really want then, it seems. It looks like they have them because everyone else is, and then don't commit to them like they should.
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