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Originally Posted by Dion

Fighting for thier marriage when adversity hits is one thing. One someone in the marriage cheats that's another ball game IMO. Trust is a damned hard thing to gain back when it's broken. It takes a lot more than forgiveness to get a marriage back on track.

Anyone who cheats is a chump in my books and deserves nothing but scorn.

What book is that, the bible?

I'm not arguing in favour of cheating but I can understand that it does happen, and often for a variety of reasons. Its not always as cut and dry as the person being of low morals or being a bad person. Human relationships are complicated things...human behaviour is a complicated thing. In a perfect world every marriage would work, and no one would ever cheat on their spouse. Obviously it isn't a perfect world though.

Kudos to those who can keep together a strong and faithful marriage...its a huge challenge (as far as I know..never been married). But to completely vilify all those who fall off that track is a little harsh in my opinion. Some people are cheaters, some people just make mistakes..some people can't resist temptation. Some people are perfect (or so they would have you think).