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Old 12-03-2009, 04:28 PM   #381
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Originally Posted by Dion View Post
It's okay to cheat and then ask for forgiveness is not a message you pass on to your kids.
Never said it was.
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Divorce is sometimes the only way out when trust cannot be earned. Imagine everytime your spouse went on a business trip and you sitting at home wondering if he'll hook up with another gal. My sister faced that situation and decided to kick her ex out of the house as trust was not going to be earned. There are some lines that are crossed and no ammount of apology is going to fix that.
And more often than not that is how these things understandably end. I was only saying that if someone forgives the other person and learns to trust them again then that is noble and should be respected. If they can't, they can't, no one is saying they have to, but in this age where everyone runs for the exits it is refreshing when people fight for their marriage when it hits adversity. To call that person a chump is unfair.
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