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Originally Posted by speede5
Or the right message of forgiveness and commitment to their marriage vows, for better or worse. I commend people who work these things out and make their marriages stronger. Divorce is the easy way out. And I don't believe she will ever be able to 'ignore' this. She has already shown it is a big deal.
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It's okay to cheat and then ask for forgiveness is not a message you pass on to your kids.
Divorce is sometimes the only way out when trust cannot be earned. Imagine everytime your spouse went on a business trip and you sitting at home wondering if he'll hook up with another gal. My sister faced that situation and decided to kick her ex out of the house as trust was not going to be earned. There are some lines that are crossed and no ammount of apology is going to fix that.