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Originally Posted by mikey_the_redneck
Many of you who sit on here and logically tell themselves and others that cheating is bad and they would never do it..........are kidding themselves, and the stats prove it.
When you are talking about the process of attraction and sex, logic goes out the window pretty quickly from the mans point of view. It is an emotion........a feeling.
Of course this is coming from a guy who doesnt think long term marriage is a natural thing either. We train ourselves to be faithful so we can try and fit into our culture, but men are wired to spread the seed.....
I think marriage should be structured much like a sports contract. Instead of "until death do us part".....you sign a 5/10/15 year marriage contract. When the contract expires and either party wants to go their separate ways, they are free to do so. You could also "trade" contracts (ie swap wives), etc.....damn I am on to something here.
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Or since marriage and love is more about emotion long term rather than sex, have it be an open marriage where occasional flings are OK.
The other option is to have discipline and to not put yourself in bad situations aka women + alcohol. Or in Tiger's case to not be such a blatant, irresponsible ######.