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Old 11-27-2009, 05:26 PM   #167
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Originally Posted by The Yen Man View Post
Look, all I'm trying to do is put myself in the father's percpetion, and try to rationalize his thinking. There's a whole slew of reasons why people choose not to get married. All I'm saying is, that's probably what the dad is thinking. It isn't right or wrong how you or the father thinks. It's just a point where you guys disagree.

Like I said, if I knew my in-laws cared so much about a formal marriage, and I didn't care either way, I would do it as a kind gesture to them, that's all.
Maybe if they don't get married and stay together for 20 years, the father will have his eyes opened a little bit and see that you don't need to be married in order to be committed to each other!

Not likely though....
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