Now... to put another spin on this..... how would you feel if your mother, if she was single, came to your place and brought along her boyfriend and they wanted to sleep together? Would that make you a bit uncomfortable?.... having your mom who you dearly love, sleeping with some relative stranger to you, in the next bedroom and perhaps even having carnal sex with said guy, under your roof?
On the other hand, my step-son who just turned 30 and his girlfriend who is 25 have been together for about 5 or 6 years. They have two kids... a girl who is 4 and a boy who is 2.
I wish they would get married.... I think if you have children with a woman, you should marry her. Call me old fashioned ... but thats the way I think..... plus I think its about time they made it legal (paperwise).... Its time they made a "real" commitment to each other.
By the way, when they come to visit, I have no problem with them sleeping together.
I also have a 22 year old step-daughter who has been living with her boyfriend for the past year. Since they live in Calgary, they don't actually have to sleep over... but if they had to, I would have no problem with it.
But then again... they are after all my step children and I wasn't the one who raised them from birth to adulthood. Maybe I would feel different if I had.
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