i never understood how my father in law let ME live with his 20 year old daughter THEIR basement for 2 years, our room right under theirs.
that was almost 20 years ago, we are married now, but i have no idea how he could stomach that. there wasnt even any discussion about it, they had a suite, so we moved into it.
i have an almost 11 year old daugther and i would not be ok with her sleeping in my house with a boyfriend (at an older age of course).
although, i would have suggested if you dont like the rule, rent a hotel room. you have done that, i think the Dad has an obligation to not hold a grudge, you are taking care of your business like a man and whether he likes it or not is simply one data point for you to consider in your decision.
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