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Originally Posted by rubecube
Are you religious? To me football and church are just as relevant. He obviously would disagree but can you give me a good reason why one should mean more than the other?
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Football is MORE relevant than church. You can go to church any day, but can you get football any day? I think not.
I'm with rubecube all the way on this. Screw big daddy, stay at a hotel. You have to have the courage of your convictions - if you are determined that marriage is not for you, who is he to say otherwise? His daughter is the one who has to decide whether or not you are committed, not him. He should be giving you both his opinion, and then abiding by your decision even if he disagrees - he needs to understand that once your children become adults, control is not only no longer possible, it's wrong.