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Originally Posted by Winsor_Pilates
By the things you've wrote in this thread, I don't think you've been making the type of effort most parents would expect.
I think you have a lower standard of what that effort should be than most, but I guess that's fair for you to have.
It's also fair for me to think your effort and attitude sucks, and side with the dad.
Your last sentence here sums it up with the relationship not being his. I don't think any relationship can work, if you don't try to make it work with the greater family/friends. The relationship is yours and your GF's, but you don't live in a bubble and it's only gonna hurt your relationship to act like you do.
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Really? I attend all of her immediate and extended family functions with her and her parents, attend every Holiday dinner, take her father to sporting events and golfing. Oh, and I also gave up my job, friends, family, and a city I loved living in to move with her to Victoria so she could be closer to her family. What else should I do to show this guy that I'm committed to his daughter?