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Originally Posted by rubecube
Again, I come from a home where marriage has had pretty negative effect on several lives. My issues with marriage have very little to do with the insignificance of it, and more to do with the horrors surrounding failed marriages.
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So what you really want to avoid is having kids? Legally since you are in a common-law relationship you are responsible for everything just as if you were married.
The biggest negative factor in any relationship is when there are children involved. this is probably because you can't just divide everything and each be on you bitter way.
I am by no means trying to give you advice or suggest you do something. You only get one life so live it however you please, however you do have your g/f and her family to consider and you should take their feelings into account since everything you do effects them in some way.