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Originally Posted by Winsor_Pilates
This isn't about beds and hotels, it's about respecting her family, their house and their traditions.
Sleeping separately for 3 days will have no long term negative effect on you, while going to a hotel could have a huge long term negative effect on your relationship with him and worse, the relationship between the dad and daughter.
You're the guy going after his daughter and it's your responsibility to try and earn his respect first. He should give you respect back, but it's not an even playing field and you owe him 1 up.
Man up, put some effort into getting along with her dad and realize the importance of not causing a rift between the dad and daughter.
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You don't think I've been doing this for the past two years? I've made every effort to try and get to know the guy and show him I respect him and is daugther, but I'm not permanently in his debt. Furthermore, if I don't plan on getting married then he needs to deal with it because it's mine and my girlfriend's relationship - not his.