This isn't about beds and hotels, it's about respecting her family, their house and their traditions.
Sleeping separately for 3 days will have no long term negative effect on you, while going to a hotel could have a huge long term negative effect on your relationship with him and worse, the relationship between the dad and daughter.
You're the guy going after his daughter and it's your responsibility to try and earn his respect first. He should give you respect back, but it's not an even playing field and you owe him 1 up.
Man up, put some effort into getting along with her dad and realize the importance of not causing a rift between the dad and daughter.
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