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Originally Posted by mikey_the_redneck
Soften your stance? Noooooooo!
It sounds to me like rubecube has his mind made up about marriage. It's his choice and there is 100% nothing wrong with it.
We are all brought up in this culture with the belief that one must get married with kids, and to do anything different is shameful and unacceptable....... Bull! The institute of marriage is a giant fail and has disastrous consequences for both participants when it does.....for men especially......and that is basically a 50/50 chance of happening. You don't need a legal document to have a relationship with another person.
So when DOES rubecube get to visit the girlfriends family and share a bed with her? When they are 30, 40 years old? They could still be un-married at that time........
I say nip this behavior in the bud now rubecube!
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This. I come from a divorced household and watched the fighting between my parents leave them, and me and my sister, drained emotionally and financially.