I had this same issue with my father in law. It has to do with core beliefs. While it may still seem a bit outdated, go with the flow.
When we were attending an event at his place that required us to stay overnight, we'd simply take our RV with us.
Bottom line, if you want to add fuel to whatever it is that is going on, go stay at a hotel. If you plan on being with this girl forever, suck it up and spend the three nights on the couch.
Pissing off your in-laws is never a great way to live.
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