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Originally Posted by GoinAllTheWay
No one in this thread is disputing that. The dispute is what the mother does with the money.
In my mind, the dad should be well within his rights to demand proof that almost every single penny he is giving her for child support payments are in fact, going to the child.
Whatever parent is making the CSP should be able to demand this and be compensated for whatever funds the other parent is using elsewhere.
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Who decides what is going to the child? There really is no real paper trail to prove which income (from CSP or earned income) is going to support the child. If the child goes on vacation with his or her Mom, how can you prove that the money was coming from CSP and is it so wrong for a family to go on vacation? If the family was still together would they have gone on vacation? Isn't divorce stressful enough on a kid than to have to deal with this too?