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Originally Posted by FireFly
If you get better the more you do it, why do some couples who have been together for a long period of time say their sex life is stagnant?
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I'm no Dr. Phil, but I doubt it's because they failed to practice long periods of abstinence.
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Originally Posted by FireFly
Also, I'm not sure they're saying the sex will get better at all. Rather, it'll mean more and be more special. In addition, they're not doing it to improve their sex life, rather their connection.
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I think this is the major point of contention for the side that's arguing that it's ridiculous. I still submit 'to each his own', but my personal view on this is much more in the neighbourhood of 'live each day to the fullest'. Not having sex when you could be having sex goes against the grain...for me, anyway.
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Originally Posted by FireFly
Again, I don't think it's about proving commitment, rather deepening the bond. Which CAN happen in a non-sexual way.
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