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Old 06-18-2009, 09:54 PM   #179
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Originally Posted by FireFly View Post
Either it will be stronger or weaker but it will not be 'artifially' anything. If it's weaker, I guess that's a sign, eh? If your relationship can't handle going without sex for 3 months, it has serious issues. What if she's told she needs strict bedrest for 6 months of a high risk pregnancy? Better bust out the divorce papers then, eh?

If it's a mutual decision for the benefit of the relationship, good stuff. If she's testing you and you fail, at least you'll know. Either way, the results are not artificial.
Pfft. Not so. Respecting his decision is one thing. Concocting scenarios is another. What if she's in a complicated pregnancy for 6 mo? What if a bus runs over my feet one day? Should I practice operating a wheelchair right now while my feet are fine?

All I know is that there's no way I'd give up sex in an LTR for no reason. I might as well start taking the bus for a few months just so that when I jump back in my truck, it's real special.
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