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Originally Posted by FireFly
For what it's worth atr, I applaud the decision. Beyond popular belief on here, it will strengthen your relationship. That's what it should be about. Of course guys on here will blast you for your decision, it's the manly' thing to do. I think it's better though that you and your fiancee want to strengthen your relationship before marriage. It will give you lots of time to focus on each other. You have the rest of your life to have sex together.  |
See, I'm all for that. But BEFORE actually commiting to marriage. I have the belief that if your relationship isn't as strong as it could possibly be heading into the marriage, then you should probably put it off. It means you fully don't know each other yet. If it needs strengthening before marriage, then think twice. Imagine how much strengthening it will need after 5+ years of marriage.