For reasons that I do not plan to go into, my wife and I have been abstaining from sex for the last month. There is no way ... no effin' way either of us would ever do this voluntarily. Tomorrow is 30 days. I'm going to be brutal, but it's going to be awesome.
One of two things is going to happen on your wedding night:
1. You'll both be too exhausted to do it that night and will do it in the morning or;
2. You'll have awesome sex because it's not only your wedding night, but you'll have been staring at each other all day looking about the best either of you have ever looked.
You do not need to abstain to have that night be special. It's your damn wedding night ... it doesn't need any help from you. I'd strongly recommend against this if only for the fact that as the date approaches your relationship will strain a little. Nothing earth shattering, but it can be a stressful time and adding one more negative onto the pile by choice is lunacy my friend. It's like trying to go on a diet and saying "hell, why don't I try and kick this pesky meth habit at the same damn time?"
My advice is to rethink this strategy and let what will inevitably be a great night just happen organically.
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