Personally, I think a Stag is a chance to get together with buddies and cut loose. It doesn't need to be about the groom or the groomsmen, but about having a good time together. There shouldn't be anything that any of you hate, especially the groom, but it should also be memorable. A little embarrassment for the groom is expected, as long as it is good natured.
My cousin's stag had a stripper. To this day we talk about....the goldfish people puked. To raise money for the groom, there was a bunch of gambling with a house cut going to the groom. One unique event was goldfish racing. Someone bought a bunch of feeder goldfish, you would buy one for $5 and in a piece of evestrough filled with water there was a race. One (drunk) guy whose fish lost, or to be mores specific, didn't cross the startline, scooped his fish out and ate it. So many other losers did the same. And that is the thing about that stag that the most people remember. Not the stripper. LOTS of stags do strippers.
You want this to be a night long remembered by you and your buddies. It should be remembered for the right reasons.
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