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Originally Posted by ken0042
As much as I previously stated that it is the groom's night- I can see the other side a bit. Many of the buddies will be in relationships of their own; so it's a lot easier to pass a friend's stag party past the "social comittee" than it is a random night of going out to the stripers.
My friends all ask if my fiancee and I have set a date. The female friends are looking forward to the wedding, and the guys all want to go to another stag.
I still say it's up to the groom, but in fairness I have been the guy saying "come on- you aren't married yet! A stag in Thailand would just rock!" It was up to the groom then to tell me to f off; as it is up to ATR to tell his current frinds the same thing.
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I have nothing against the friends throwing out ideas. I just think they're being dicks by throwing out his concerns with disregard. I just think it is about respect. I get guys busting each others balls a bit, but to me it sounds like atr is really getting disrespected by his wolf pack. And I think you are correct though. It really does sound like his friends just want to see the peelers because they normally "can't".