For me, after I've been seeing a girl for a few weeks, I usually bring it up myself. I'll just flat out ask her if she's seeing anyone else or whether she considers us a unit. Since it's usually the girl that wants to know this, they're always relieved when I bring it up for them. Then I tell them that I'm not going to be seeing anyone else and that it's all about her for the forseeable future. Then we do the dirty and I let her stay over. Then, within a few months, I'm single again.
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