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Old 06-16-2009, 11:26 AM   #4
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Always refer to Seinfeld my friend.

When dates on the weekend begin to be assumed you are officially bf and gf.

Although some people are way more lax, ie your friend, and some people think unless there is a declaration after several months of being "steady" then no such agreement exists and they are free to sleep around because you aren't exclusive.

That being said I have a slightly different interpretation of "dating" than some people. I've known a few dudes and chicks that see no problem with dating several people at once and choosing the best one after a few dates each (or sometimes just one). While in principle I agree with this I don't think anything past a kiss goodnight should be taking place during these instances. If I nailed two different chicks within a week because I considered us "not exclusive" and I ended up going steady with one of them, maybe even getting married I'd feel pretty dirty that I was nailing another chick while she thought we were on the verge of a prosperous relationship.
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