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Originally Posted by alltherage
This thread is actually about me, because I'm getting married in September. I am having a hell of a time getting my buddies to do a party the way I want it. We can go out, get smashed, maybe rent a party bus, dance... shots.... whatever, but they are so set on strippers it's ridiculous. They also seem to think that getting me outright bombed from the get-go is the best idea. I think sure, whatever, you want me to puke... fine. But I don't think I should have to be wheeled around in a wheelbarrow for this... maybe hit me with some "night-enders" when the party is wrapping up, you know?
Oh, and it's definitely not because of my fiance. She will probably have entertainment at her stagette, and good on her, I couldn't care less... it's just not for me. I don't like it... it embarasses me.
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it depends on just how uncomfortable and embarrassed you are about it. There needs to be a little embarrassment factor for the groom as well. the key is
a little.
your buddies probably see it as something that would be fun and think you can laugh off the embarrassment and have a good time with anyway. if that's not the case and will completely kill the night, you need to make that completely clear before hand.