I've said it before Fotze, once you have that little baby in your arms your world will just stop. You'll seriously wonder how you lived without him/her. The first few months are crap, but when they smile at you and you realize that they are smiling at you for no other reason than the fact that they love you no questions asked (because they can't talk yet
) you'll realize how insiginificant everything else is. Work? Who cares, its just a job. Money? If you're smart, you'll always get by. You'll be busier than shinguard for the first year (which I just finished) but you slowly start to get your life back....
Oh ya, and if work is stale, then change it. My best attribute. Nothing is worth going insane at a job. Change may be hard but if you have to do it, do it.