You used the word itself in your definition.
What do you mean respect your decision? I accept that everyone has the right to decide, and I also think that most people make the best decisions they can with the information they have. So I respect people's decisions.
Don't I have a right to scrutinize and criticize the information that those decisions are made from? Or a right to scrutinize and criticize the decision making process to see if it was valid or not?