I've never blame the person who committs suicide, no one in their right mind would want to end their life.
Like they say it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem
It's a shame someone got to a place in their life where they felt this was all thats left.
But you don't know why this person was in that dark place, emotional, physical, mental....
If it's physical or mental then I'd blame the system we live in. Help should always be there when they don't have that choice..... it's not like you can take someones physical pain away with a ear and a cup of coffee...
Emotional , I blame the people around the person, if they never felt alone and that suicide was the way to end their troubles. Friends and family shouldn't just be there for the good times...
The people who rant and rave about it being selfish need to answer the question where were you when this took place? If you had no clue, honestly no clue that this person was in that position then you weren't truely a friend...and you have no right to cover up your guilt by transfering your in ablility to be a friend by pushing more sadness onto someone who obviously had too much to handle already.
Now i'm not saying your to blame, like i said odds are you don't know why he came to this conclusion. People really do need to communicate more...
We really need to take religion and how it's frowned upon out of our society. We all should be educated that in life we have some ups and downs, it's normal and your not unique....your not alone and here's how we can help....
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