[Yeah_Baby]

Originally Posted by REDVAN

Everyone talking about finding yourself, and learning who you are, all that... in my personal experience, I did so by meeting a ton of girls from plentyoffish (and through friends of friends).

I learnt slowly what I like, what I dislike, and it helped me realize who I was/am. I didn't rush into anything, and then I finally met a good girl online (after a year of being single, and probably going out with 30 different random girls).

There's nothing wrong with MissKat playing the field while she finds her groove again. I'd recomend it, rather than sit at home and rack her brain over being single. Some people are singletons, and others are relationship people. If you're a relationship person, you need someone to keep your interest, even if just for a day or two.

P.S. SERIOUSLY try plentyoffish.com for a bit. It's FREE, and it worked for me. Yes there are lots of creeps, but eventually you'll find someone good, or you'll find them from real life and not the site. But you can use it to meet people in the meantime!

I'm not saying stay and home and meditate. Or go on a walkabout in down below until you find yourself. My point wasn't to not go out and not casually date or meet people. I merely meant that I have met people (not saying MissKat falls into this category) that seem to jump from relationship to relationship. They feel they need another partner to make them feel complete. I think you need to feel complete as an individual first.