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Originally Posted by REDVAN
Everyone talking about finding yourself, and learning who you are, all that... in my personal experience, I did so by meeting a ton of girls from plentyoffish (and through friends of friends).
I learnt slowly what I like, what I dislike, and it helped me realize who I was/am. I didn't rush into anything, and then I finally met a good girl online (after a year of being single, and probably going out with 30 different random girls).
There's nothing wrong with MissKat playing the field while she finds her groove again. I'd recomend it, rather than sit at home and rack her brain over being single. Some people are singletons, and others are relationship people. If you're a relationship person, you need someone to keep your interest, even if just for a day or two.
P.S. SERIOUSLY try plentyoffish.com for a bit. It's FREE, and it worked for me. Yes there are lots of creeps, but eventually you'll find someone good, or you'll find them from real life and not the site. But you can use it to meet people in the meantime!
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But you're still talking about taking time to find out who you were, and not looking to start into another long term relationship again.
While MissKat hasn't come right out and said that she wants to get into another LTR, it can be assumed this is what she is looking for by considering paying a lot of money for a dating service...
The key in all of it, is one has to be happy with themselves before they can be happy with someone else.