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Originally Posted by Frankster
So I just read the other thread that was linked here...
MissKat, I can't believe you wouldn't consider paying $20/month for a place like eHarmony, but you are considering paying $160/month for It's Just Lunch.
Just gonna call it like I see it here, but I think you are so wrapped up in trying to find a relationship, that you aren't going to be happy.
Spend some more time alone (it's been what 6-7 weeks since your break-up). Learn who you really are...learn to be happy with yourself. Only then will you be in a position to start looking for a successful long term relationship.
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Well said! I was going to try to say something along those lines, but I didn't really know how to put it without it coming off like a personal attack against MissKat.
But yeah, breakups definitely suck, and the time immediately following can be very lonely... but instead of trying to fill that void right away, its definitely good to just take some time for yourself. Make your life all about you for a while!