Yes or No: Should the guy always be expected to pay on the first date?
I say it depends - drink or coffee, then yes. Fine dinner, sporting event, or movie +? No.
To me, too many girls out there always expect the dude to pay their way and just stand there all pretty waiting for the dude to pull out his wallet. That is a VERY bad first impression!
But to me, it also says a lot about a girl if they even offer to pay their way. Do I expect to pay? No, but I always at least offer to pay for myself. When a lot just stand there like a showcase jewel, automatically expecting the guy to pay their way through the night, it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth.
So where do you guys draw the line?
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