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Originally Posted by V
It appears to me that you have absolutely no idea. I'm guessing your experience within a marriage, especially one containing a pregnant wife is non-existant.
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Very proudly, I might add.
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The very simple fact is that if you want a marriage to actually work, if the woman has a problem, it is instantly the guy's problem. Because the alternative is stang expecting his woman to deal with these issues on her own, and then it's not a marriage anymore, it's two people hanging out in the same house.
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Complete and total bulls***. Working through tragedies like murder and rape, job loss, moving, medical emergencies, and a thousand other
legitimate problems are what a marriage is for. That is when two people
absolutely need each other to the point of the exclusion of all else to not fall into a pit of hopeless dispair.
When a woman (or man) goes about making things like "jam night" or whatever into something along the same emotional lines as what I described then I have no time or sympathy for them. Boo-hoo, they grow up and get over it.
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Personally, I think a lot of the stuff in here is pretty lame. I'd go stir-crazy if my wife wasn't able to cope without me 2 nights a week, especially when the kids have been put down already and the chores have been taken care of, even if she is pregnant. But then, there's a good reason I didn't marry a woman like that.
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Here here!