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Originally Posted by stang
TBH... I dont hang out with any of my buddies I used to when we first started dating years ago... these are just a couple like minded musicians who want to get out and jam a couple nights a week. They wouldnt be my first choice to go out for a night on the town or anything...
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To her, it doesn't matter if they are your best buddies or faceless strangers. They are your people you enjoy your time with. She needs to have the same.
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Originally Posted by stang
But you are probally right...
I have bought her 2 guitars of her own (right handed so that proves they are not for me haha) so maybe I will ask her to jam with me at home on my second night....
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When you personally make an effort and get her involved, that's probably your best bet to fix the problem. Maybe she just need a little push, feeling of involvement and soon she'll find a circle of friends she can hang out with on her own.
Good luck
