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Old 03-11-2009, 10:02 PM   #60
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Ive been married for 4.5 years right now, but I dont have kids......however, if my husband went out twice a week for pretty much the whole evening and I was pregnant, I might be a little upset. Ive been around a lot of my friends whove gone through the pregnancy thing and I think they need their partners.....Im not saying that pregnant women are needy..but she's carrying your child. Dont fight with her now!

I think if I wasn't pregnant, I would appreciate it if he would return the favor and let me go out a couple nights with my friends too....

My husband and I do this but we each do 1 night a week and it works well since it allows each one of us to have "me" time.....it's healthy for a relationship to be away from each other except for when your'e at work. It's important to have your own hobbies/friends.......but right now she's pregnant and tired and you should be there for her...go out once a week instead of twice, its okay to compromise.
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