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Old 03-11-2009, 07:04 PM   #22
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Good comments.

Remeber, happy wife, happy life. It is true.

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Originally Posted by longsuffering View Post
I don't think its the booze that really bothers her. It's insecurity I'll bet.

She's pregnant with kid number 2 and her loving hubby is in a bar 2 nights a week.

Even though it is totally innocent, given her hormone levels and her (probable) insecurity with her body image, etc. etc., she thinks of all the things that can go 'wrong' in the bar. It begins, but doesn't end, with drinking. She hasn't said anything about the girls in these bars?

Try and be supportive. Things will probably get worse before they get better, and you may want to think about offering to give up one night (temporarily), but if you can show her that she (and your child/children) are your number one priority, I think she might come around.

Good luck
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