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Originally Posted by stang
I would love for her to do her own thing and go out... She doesnt. I would have no problem with her doing whatever she wants (within normal couple limits of course)
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Yeah... I can see it as a problem if she isn't getting to do something similar. She may not want to go out with her friends for 2 nights a week... maybe she wants something different. You get to go out 2 nights a week, fair enough. What does she get? I'm not looking for 'she can do anything she wants' so much as how you're making up for what is a somewhat hefty amount of 'me' time.
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If she wanted to go swimming 2 nights a week.. good.
Soccer/dance with my sister? I would be thrilled.
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Maybe she actually thinks 2 nights a week is just too much. To be honest, if they're weeknights... I could see her point, especially if she's not also active in the social sense.
I think when you have a wife and kid, jamming with the dudes 2 weeknights a week might be asking too much. But I'm not married and I don't have kids, so you probably know better than I.
