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Originally Posted by nickerjones
umm i know im going in a different direction from the cool muff shot your girl saw but i am in the doghouse now as well and rightfully so..... I have lost my wedding ring... we both saw it in the same last place and then it has vanished. I dont wear my ring that often because my hands bother me and sometimes swell up and making the ring unbearable to wear. Needless to say we dont know how long it had been missing. It was on the bathroom sink but the drain is to small to fit the ring..... maybe i could have knocked it into to toilet on one of my "late night ,my blood sugar is to high pissing festivals", or maybe my dog swallowed in a it out but whatever happened it is gone and my wife is none to happy about it. ( it has been a lil over a month)
We got married twice so i still the original bland silver ring i got on our first small wedding but i lost the 1 carat mens band........ yikes
and not to mention i was stupid enough to ask her last night why she didnt hang up my clothes and i got the whole im not your maid speech..... then i said well i figured since i took on a 2nd job to help put money back that you could do that stuff while i was out working the 2nd job on the weekend.... that didnt go over well either.... this last fiasco was at 11 pm last night and i swear we have not said a word to each other since then........ i dunno whether to apologize or stand my ground..... i mean i could do more chores but i would assume since i work 40 hrs like her but then spend my fri night, all day and night sat , and all day sunday working a 2nd job that she could do the chores... women is that wrong of me to think ??
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That is not wrong of you to think at all. Your feelings are important, so dont ignore them. But remember the
content of the fight is not what is important, its the fact that you two don't have an understanding of eachother's feelings. She has her own feelings and frustrations from her own perspective too.
"Seek to understand before you seek to be understood"...........I read that quote somewhere....