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Originally Posted by bigtmac19
I got sucked into this, it's definitely a no-no. Nothing like re-opening that wound time and time again. I would have moved on a lot faster otherwise. I wasn't the one doing the contacting, it was my ex, and I kept expecting it to mean more than it did, which was stupid. I truly regret all the time I wasted with that.
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Yeah, I was like you too. I didn't talk to her for months after the break up and had to work. Then when school started up again, she talked to me, no big deal, then she invited my roommate and I over for dinner and I thought I could do it, but when I saw her, everything came flooding back.
Now, it's Lent, I can use it as an excuse to stay off facebook and MSN, pretty much barring any communcation with almost the entire world (except through calling, texting and of course, forums). This has helped me immensely, as there is absolutely nothing that reminds me of her and life is much much easier.