ok...so keeping on my philosophical bent...
Do
Nice guys really finish last?
Are you a nice guy and find that you are always being dumped or repalced by that muscle shirt wearing, beer drinking, cigarette smoking plumber?
CP Girls? Where do you weigh in?
Do you LOVE that dark guy...the one with a bit of an edge...
or the nice nerd that you know you will find at the keyboard...posting on CalgaryPuck?
You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."
I get letters from self-professed Nice Guys, complaining that women must WANT to be treated like , because THEY, the "Nice Guy" have failed repeatedly in relationships. This is akin to the false logic that "Whales are mammals. Whales live in the sea. Therefore, all mammals live in the sea."
If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.