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jammies · 03-02-2009, 10:39 PM

Tell her to go ahead and call the cops - I'm sure they need a good laugh as much as anyone else.

You are worried, but really, what is she going to do? As Dion said, a verbal contract is just as binding as a written one, and if she wants to pay for a lawyer to try and sue the cat from you, she can go right ahead and waste her money. You having the cat for the last 8 months (and her having the other cat, which rather destroys any arguments she might have about not being able to take care of it until now) makes it pretty obvious who is telling the truth if it comes down to your word against hers.

As far as what she "learned" from 311, she's obviously a liar and a headcase, and I'd take her "findings" with a huge amount of skepticism.

I'd suggest you just don't take any calls from her or communicate with her in any way; she's obviously doing this to cause you distress, but if she doesn't get any payoff in being able to see or hear your pain, she is likely to get discouraged. Don't even listen to her voicemails - just delete, delete, delete and ignore. If she comes by, don't open the door. If she comes to your work, get her escorted out. It'll be hard but not as hard as letting her screw with your mind going forward.

03-02-2009, 10:39 PM	#20
jammies Basement Chicken Choker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: In a land without pants, or war, or want. But mostly we care about the pants. Exp:	Tell her to go ahead and call the cops - I'm sure they need a good laugh as much as anyone else. You are worried, but really, what is she going to do? As Dion said, a verbal contract is just as binding as a written one, and if she wants to pay for a lawyer to try and sue the cat from you, she can go right ahead and waste her money. You having the cat for the last 8 months (and her having the other cat, which rather destroys any arguments she might have about not being able to take care of it until now) makes it pretty obvious who is telling the truth if it comes down to your word against hers. As far as what she "learned" from 311, she's obviously a liar and a headcase, and I'd take her "findings" with a huge amount of skepticism. I'd suggest you just don't take any calls from her or communicate with her in any way; she's obviously doing this to cause you distress, but if she doesn't get any payoff in being able to see or hear your pain, she is likely to get discouraged. Don't even listen to her voicemails - just delete, delete, delete and ignore. If she comes by, don't open the door. If she comes to your work, get her escorted out. It'll be hard but not as hard as letting her screw with your mind going forward. __________________ Better educated sadness than oblivious joy.