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Old 02-11-2009, 12:05 AM   #1677
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Your second paragraph I mostly agree with. It does generalize a bit to say that women and/or men always feel one way or another but I think generally people would agree with this.
Well yah, this is obviously generalization on my part, but I didn't want to go into too much detail for the ADD generation among us.

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As for the whole getting sex propositioned to a guy it really depends. If you are saying I'm just walking down the street and a random, hot woman walks up and says "come with me we're going to f***". I would likely pass.
That's really what I was referring too, although I moojed it up a bit; I should have separated out the part about being propositioned by a friend. A friend (preferably female) who tells you she wants you usually just means you are either clueless as to the signals she was putting out or else not attracted (which is a whole 'nother topic of awkward), but that is qualitatively far different than some stranger coming up to you looking for sex.

I would guess that 90% of men would react as you and I would, and say "No thanks." I've had it happen to me several times and it just isn't in any way stimulating, even after filtering out the ones I wouldn't have slept with under any circumstances. I think the myth that guys will sleep with any available woman is not even remotely true, and it'd be far more accurate to say that SOME guys will sleep with any reasonably attractive woman, and that's as far as it goes.

I'll use a food analogy - just because men like looking at and fantasizing about attractive women doesn't mean all men are sluts, just like how everybody likes to eat doesn't mean they all end up morbidly obese.
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