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Originally Posted by jammies
Ok... like which part? Speaking of generalizations...
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Well you are right that hetersexual sex involves two people so they each get laid because of it.
Yet there are factors to be considered when someone tries to find a suitable mating partner. Women tend to be the "protectors". Biologically it is in their best interests to only mate with the strongest of the herd, the one who gives their offspring the best chance of survival.
This isn't completely true in today's society but there are elements of this that remain in females today.
Your second paragraph I mostly agree with. It does generalize a bit to say that women and/or men always feel one way or another but I think generally people would agree with this.
As for the whole getting sex propositioned to a guy it really depends. If you are saying I'm just walking down the street and a random, hot woman walks up and says "come with me we're going to f***". I would likely pass.
However, if a woman approaches me and makes small talk and slowly seduces me, leading me to believe that our having sex after only knowing each other for 3 hours is just an irresistable spark, then maybe.
Moreover, if we're at the bar or any other such place where my female detection is higher than usual (ie I'm on the hunt), then I think the chances increase further yet that we may screw because I'll be even more forthcoming and she won't have to do as much to get me to have sex with her. That being said not every time I go drinking/to the pub/to the bar am I looking for a quick lay. However, I don't really view nightclubs as good places to meet future mates, I prefer more casual atmosphere where talking is involved.
So like I said to just say any woman who offers sex, even if hot, is totally unatractive to guys isn't true. I'd say a large number of men would say yes even in very questionable circumstances. If the man actually feels as though he is in a position to "pick up" the girl or if he gets the feeling they have such an immediate and deep connection that he may have sex with her.
Which reminds me of something that may or may not be on topic. It was about men being attracted to random women and how they perceived the women (heck I may even have read it on CP). It basically said that you can put a woman anywhere, doing anything, wearing anything in any place where there are men and regardless of what she is doing, even if she's just staring into space, at least some of the men will believe that she is interested in them. Not sure what underlying traits that is showing exactly, other than maybe we lie to ourselves to get our hopes up, or have really bad abilities to judge female interest but I don't doubt that it is true.