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Originally Posted by FireFly
So you've never met a girl with a high sex drive AND morals. Gotcha. My exes would tell you that I have a high sex drive. In fact, I often complained I wasn't getting laid enough. And yet, I've never cheated on a partner. Strange, huh? In fact, I've actually been celibate for a number of months now waiting for someone worth my time who deserves my freaky sex. And I'm okay with that. Crazy, eh?
So maybe I could go into a crowd and ask who wanted a piece and get one... but I'd still never do it. When I find someone I want to talk to in the morning, I'll take them to bed and stay there until I hurt.
So what you're saying is YOU would cheat if it was easier for you to do so, and because of that you're projecting those thoughts onto others with a similar sex drive. Now it makes sense.
I'm fairly certain not ALL men would cheat if it were that easy. Or maybe that's just a stupid assumption from a trusting idiot.
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Not all men would cheat if it were that easy. We do have morals too. If the situation were reversed hopefully men would have higher standards of how often and who to screw.
As to your statement that you have a high sex drive and don't get enough. Don't want to call you out or anything but I've never met a girl who didn't say she had a high sex drive. Seriously. Every single girl I've ever dated or been friends with gives me the old "all my boyfriends/female friends are amazed because I can't get enough". Even every guy has told me that his g/f can't get enough and is always complaining.
And yet I've never met a girl who like to screw more than a guy (I only know my own experience but from what I know most guys are like me). They all say they do, but really they only think about sex about 1/3 as much.
I honestly know guys that think masturbating 27 times in one month is a low number. G/f or not.
In fact some girls who are sluts don't even have that high of a sex drive. They honestly just have daddy issues, or some other problems, and like the attention that screwing a lot of guys gets them. It is short term reward. All the guys who are desperate to get laid chat them up, lavish them with attention - and sometimes the not so desperate ones too - but generally young guys have less morals IMO. The other girls get jealous. It may have nothing to do with actual sex drive. And then when they hit their mid 20s and guys start to want a steady girl who has long term potential these former attn grabbers can't get a good guy because their stock is so devalued. Then it becomes a self perpetuating problem because they have to continually devalue themselves to get attn. Furthermore, they can't hold a relationship if they do find a guy who doesn't know about their history because they can't sustain a long term relationship without any previous experience and are actually so inept they become toxic when dealing with good men.